So once again, my lateness has gotten in the way of great accomplishments. But I got up, fed the pets, neglected all other household responsibilities and sat right down to dump my brain. Just for you. And this was a fun one for me.
I’m also finding that perhaps I’m getting accustomed to the 5 minutes parameters. Just as my 5 minute timer is up, I seem to have written a logical conclusion to my brain dump.
Anyway, I’m glad you enjoy what my gray matter produces and I hope you let yours do the same (and don’t forget to link up so we can all support each other!)
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It’s Sunday and time to dump my brain. But have you ever had your brain feel so scattered that you can’t even organize your random thoughts?
Yeah, that’s how I’m feeling this morning.
And it’s not in a bad way. It’s not in an OMG I’m completely frazzled and I can’t even collect my thoughts kind of way (which is actually pretty typical for me). It’s the “the adventure has just begun” way.
My husband lost his job on Friday. I’m not sad. I’m quite happy. His position was “eliminated” which is a nice way of saying politics and nepotism trump all.
However, he HATED his job. Like really and truly hated it. Because nobody ever respected him or valued him even though he was the smartest guy there. Sometimes people don’t like the smartest guy because it makes them feel dumb. And this is not just some nice wifely defense. I know this because it’s true.
So we’re treating this as an “in between jobs” phase, which I’m pretty sure it is. Opportunities abound right now. And so while a normal person might feel stressed panicked freaked out or whatever. I’m thrilled. Happy endings and new beginnings.
He’s left behind the job that made him miserable. And I don’t know what’s over the horizon and I’m kind of excited about it. While we should be extra cautious and pinching pennies just incase, all we can tihnk about is where we should spend this new found family time together.
I might even confess that the words “Disney road trip” have come out of my husband’s mouth to which I quickly reply – when do we leave?
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Sorry that he lost his job, but happy there is a silver lining in this. I hope he finds a position that he likes and where he is valued.
He will and gray skies are going to clear up!
Isn’t it interesting how something that is stereotypically a problem in life can actually be a blessing? While we all need money, it’s a horrible thing to have a job where you are taken advantage of and not recognized for the work you do. It sounds as though letting your husband go is a real loss for the company, even though they don’t see it that way. Well, they are getting what they deserve.
Best of luck (and fun!) for you and your husband!
You know what? I lost my job in July 2010. I was devastated even though I hated working there. But had it not happened, I wouldn’t be part of the blogging world that I love so much!
I mean, I lost my job in July 2009. Time flies when you’re having fun!!!
Sorry that he lost his job but I always believe that everything happens for a reason.
Glad to be linking up! I was actually able to get up 10 mins before everyone, pour a cup of coffee and write a post within 5 mins…doesn’t happen very often!
5 minutes goes fast when you’re writing, doesn’t it? Glad you linked up!
Good things are coming his way. I know a few people who have lost jobs they hated in the last few months and found something in which they are far happier now. Good luck and blessings!
I know of so many stories just like that. If we can get past the financial uncertainty, I know that better days are ahead!
Excellent. A road trip will be the perfect way to move forward and transition between this job he hated and what’s up next! I’m linking up today. Can’t seem to get the button to work, but linking up anyway! Happy SOCS! :>
Thanks for linking up. Promise to fix that stupid button for next week. If the snow ever comes or goes, we can make our travel plans. Yay!
This is a fantastic time to go to Disney!! I think that is a fabulous idea. Let me know if you want to take Oscar too. I hear casts get you straight to the front of the line 😉
Hmmmm – a 2 year old with a broken leg but the ability to line cut at Disney… You are tempting me.
Hope you aren’t pulling your hair out!
When one door shuts another opens! I was at a job I hated and though I was surprised when they let me go, it really was a blessing. I hope Sean can find a place that truly can see what an asset he is and where he is happy.
I’ve been thinking about Disney more and more lately…
That was me in July 2009. And he will be much happier. I’m hoping we can pull a last minute Disney trip off. It’s the happiest place on Earth!
That was me in July 2009. And he will be much happier. I’m hoping we can pull a last minute Disney trip off. It’s the happiest place on Earth!
You have a great attitude and so does your husband. I think the road trip is an awesome idea. Hope to see a post on it in the future (?). also I agree with you it sucks to be in a position like your husband was. He will def be better off elsewhere.
If I hit the road, I won’t go without my laptop, iPad, iPhone, whatever. Makes for very inspired writing!!
If I hit the road, I won’t go without my laptop, iPad, iPhone, whatever. Makes for very inspired writing!!
I think it is awesome that you guys have such a positive outlook on the situation!
We try to look at it this way… nobody is dying. We’re in a good spot but even if we lost everything in the morning, we have each other and could always start again.
I am sorry that your husband lost his job. It sounds like maybe it is for the best. I hope you guys do decide to go away for a little family time! I would do anything for that now!
Linked up. Sending happy thoughts your way. Being out of a job he hates will be a blessing. Enjoy that road trip 🙂
It is a blessing and thanks for the happy thoughts!
It is a blessing and thanks for the happy thoughts!
I’m having heart palpitations just thinking about NOT being able to revise and spellcheck—don’t know if I can do it. Might have to work my way up to this…..
You did fine. You have plenty of misspelled words on your blog anyway… 😉
You did fine. You have plenty of misspelled words on your blog anyway… 😉
If you take a road trip to Disney, I will poke you in the eye when I see you… just be warned. I’m not sure if it will be from jealousy or disapproval, but one way or another it will happen. Consider yourself warned.
I don’t want to like Disney. And yet, I love Disney. You can’t help but be in a good mood there. Even a disapproving expat like yourself.
I don’t want to like Disney. And yet, I love Disney. You can’t help but be in a good mood there. Even a disapproving expat like yourself.
What a positive outlook on it! I hope he finds something soon- but enjoy the family time first!
I’m expecting rainbows and kittens soon but for now, we’re just enjoying a nice little break.
I’m expecting rainbows and kittens soon but for now, we’re just enjoying a nice little break.
SO excited about your potential opportunities and it is FAB that you are thinking of it that way – you are now available for the opportunity of a lifetime. I cannot wait to participate once things get a little more settled in my life. As always I love it!
You’re all moved, aren’t you? That’s a possibility for us so trying to looking at it as an adventure. Or at the very least, inspiration for my blog!
You’re all moved, aren’t you? That’s a possibility for us so trying to looking at it as an adventure. Or at the very least, inspiration for my blog!
Did I hear Disney? We are driving down Feb 6th. You should SO come.
Seems like a time to find some great things for hubs and spend some great time as a family!
Wouldn’t that be fun? We went with another couple last year who had a little boy that was Evan’s age and he has so much fun with him. I’ll keep you posted as plans progress.
Wouldn’t that be fun? We went with another couple last year who had a little boy that was Evan’s age and he has so much fun with him. I’ll keep you posted as plans progress.
i absolutely adore how you are looking at things. so positive. i love it!
One day, we’re moving to CT. The next we’re staying here. And now? Who knows but it will be an adventure!
I am sorry to see about your husband losing his job, but I am glad that this might help him find something that he truly loves to do.
I can’t wait to try this out this week! I don’t know that my readers are going to be excited about what dumps out of my brain though. LoL
I love your great attitude! I know great things will come your husband’s way. Enjoy your road trip.