This is not a political piece. This is not a sob story. It’s personal experience with how the other half lives.
I know I sound like I’m a nice white lady who’s lived a privileged life and never been to the wrong side of the tracks. That’s not entirely true. While I do consider myself a nice white lady, I grew up in a modest lower middle class childhood. We never had health insurance, that I recall. We always seemed to have what my mother called “hospitalization” or sometimes “major medical.” It was the type of insurance that would cover major catastrophic medical events.
We had no co-pays or prescription drug coverage. It was what-you-see-is-what-you-pay kind of coverage. And you know how we dealt with it? We didn’t get sick. And if we did, we didn’t go to the doctor. On the odd occasion that we did, we crammed as many kids and ailments into that appointment as possible. But I never realize any of the realities of healthcare.
I moved away and went to college. They required all students to either be covered by their parents’ medical insurance or enroll in the student medical program. My dad was unemployed at the time so I went with the student coverage. I have no idea how much it cost because it was rolled in with the massive costs of attending a private school. It took me 20 years but I did eventually pay for it all.
With student coverage, I went to Health Services anytime I felt like it. I didn’t pay for anything. They gave out prescription medication. I paid nothing. After college, I had no insurance and started experiencing a ringing in my ears. I went to an ENT, a specialist. All you have to do is utter the word specialist and your bill is well over $200. That’s when I realized the importance of healthcare. Because this stuff’s expensive.
Many years later, I’m brought back to the reality of the uninsured, or in my case, greatly underinsured. I worked, I got laid off, I got state continuation of my employer’s health care coverage. It’s basically COBRA for small companies. We managed and survived for the last year or so because we had government assistance in paying for the premium. Otherwise, over $1000 per month would have been difficult to swing.
And then the government assistance ended and the paperwork changed hands and I inadvertently missed a deadline. The result? Policy cancellation. Impossible to reinstate. That meant no health insurance. Not a situation I ever wanted to be in.
We looked at applying for a private policy which was surprisingly not nearly as expensive as my employer’s policy, with close to the same coverage. My husband declined. He was hoping to find another job with good benefits and save the day because his employer offered only a Healthcare Savings Account (HSA).
We waited and my husband panicked. He felt sure that not having any coverage was a sure way for something catastrophic to happen. So he signed us up for his HSA as a safety net. Now it’s the end of January and no new job and no new insurance.
Normally, this wouldn’t be a big deal. I probably go to the doctor’s two or three times a year and that includes my routine check-ups. My son goes once or twice a year and my husband a little more frequently. We’re actually a pretty healthy family, for the most part. That is, until this winter.
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In my usual manner, I blathered on way too long and split this into two posts. Come back tomorrow, for some shocking figures from my own personal experiences on Healthcare, Healthcare, Wherefore Art Thou?
11 comments
When I was growing up we didn’t have health insurance either… and I don’t recall going to the doctor either!
We have insurance now and it’s expensive, confusing, and doesn’t cover half of what I need it to. And we don’t have prescription coverage either. That we pay out of our pockets 100%!
And this has been one hell of an expensive winter! I don’t even want to think about the total cost of what we’ve spent.
It makes me wonder what’s changed since we were kids. Is healthcare more expensive? Do we get sick more? And the prescription costs are just ridiculous. If this were a long term situation, I can’t imagine how our medical bills would play out.
I think people get sick more. More sick people=more money for big pharmaceutical companies. People are eating worse than they were 20-30 years ago and exercising less which leads to more sickness, etc. It’s all a vicious circle.
I think it’s SO important for personal stories like yours to be told, Fadra. I know that it’s hard to talk about it, but you are doing the right thing. And I hope to goodness that the new healthcare legislation will help families in similar situations. I’m a crazy hippie liberal (I’m from Canada where healthcare for all is a RIGHT, so this seems so foreign to me), and I know that you and I probably don’t share all the same political views, but on this issue – I’m feeling you. Hugely. (((hugs)))
Yeah, I know my liberal friends are secretly saying, oh NOW she gets it. The truth is, I don’t know the right answers or the right way to fix it. I’ve heard socialized medicine has its own problems in terms of getting seen! All I know is that healthcare SHOULD be a right for everyone.
Yes, I’m another crazy hippy Canuck who doesn’t understand how Americans have been getting on all these years. I only learned the term “co-pay” about two months before I moved to the US.
Great post. We have to have some kind of insurance. My prescriptions alone for my asthma would cost me $500+ a month without it and thanks to my asthma a private policy is extremely expensive so thank gosh for my husband’s company offered plan.
It sucks, doesn’t it? And what happens if (God forbid) your husband were to lose his job? It puts a lot of undue pressure on both of you just to make sure you can continue to treat yourself.
I can’t remember ever not having insurance, even when I got out of college. I always managed to sign on wherever I worked and never saw how having that option was a big deal. Since I’ve been married, insurance has been a big deal…we discuss every time it’s time to renew to weigh all options. I can’t imagine what we would do if my husband lost his job and we had to pay for the upcoming baby!
Healthcare in America is such a touchy subject – people take it so personally. All I know is that a co-worker of mine has to forgo going to the doctor (even with our company’s insurance) because the deductibles are so high. She told me “I can’t afford it this year.” That alone is enough for me to believe it should be a right for everyone, no one should have to choose financial security over visiting the doctor.
You know how you hear stories of old folks heading up to Canada to get their drugs? I have an example of that. The birth control I take is $30 USD per month going through my insurance at work. It’s considered a “Premium” brand BCP. The exact same pill, per month, in Canada just over the counter with a prescription and no insurance, $23 CDN. Something’s not right about that.
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